Verse 13.10

असक्ितरनभिष्वङ्गः पुत्रदारगृहादिषु।नित्यं च समचित्तत्वमिष्टानिष्टोपपत्तिषु।।13.10।।

asaktir anabhiṣhvaṅgaḥ putra-dāra-gṛihādiṣhu nityaṁ cha sama-chittatvam iṣhṭāniṣhṭopapattiṣhu

Meaning

No cap, detach from your fam, your boo, your crib, and all that. Stay chill whether things are fire or trash.

Commentary

Okay, so like, attachment is, like, the WORST. It's when you're all, "OMG, this is MINE!" and you get all attached. It's this whole false identity thing, you know? You're vibing with your stuff, your fam, your crib...and then when stuff goes south, you're a whole mess. Asakti? That's like, zero attachment. You're not even phased. Anabhishvangah? That's when you're, like, *super* attached to your fam, and their drama is *your* drama. A wise person? Nah, they don't trip. Their home? It's just a pit stop. And the rest? Yeah, all those peeps you're close to? Same deal. Constant chill? That's the key to knowledge. You're not freaking out over good or bad stuff. No attachment, no stress, that's how you get to know yourself.